How Newlyweds Can Minimize Financial Stress

June 2, 2009, Written By Sarah Hefner

June marks the beginning of “wedding season” and many newlyweds are about to start their life together. While they have the same dreams and goals as newlyweds before them, many are going to find it much more difficult to get credit to finance those goals. New credit card regulations and the reaction by issuers are likely to have a big impact on those who are just starting out and applying for credit.

Whereas credit used to be available to the masses, it is now more difficult to get home loans and credit cards, experts say. Credit issuers are watching credit scores, history, and even spending activities to make sure you are not at risk for defaulting on a loan. Experts suggest utilizing the engagement period to start building a financial plan.

Your spouse is “business” partner as well as your life partner. Your credit, good name, and financial future will be tied to this person. Don’t assume that your spouse thinks the same way you do or shares the same beliefs about money. Their spending and saving habits may surprise you.

Experts suggest having an honest discussion about money; if one partner has difficulties managing debt or spending, it will not only affect the couple’s financial situation but could also affect the other’s credit score.

Talking about money is difficult for anyone, but discussing finances before the wedding is a good way to test the relationship. If you can’t have an honest discussion about finances before the wedding, then this may not be the person you want to join together with for the rest of your life. Statistics show that finances are one of the biggest causes of stress in a marriage, so you will be better off if you can confide in each other and create a financial plan together.

Here are tips for avoiding the stresses of marriage and debt:

* Before the wedding, show all of your cards. Tell your spouse about your income, debts, issues you have with money, how your parents raised you to handle money, your strengths and weaknesses with money, and admit if you are a spender or saver. A good place to start is to use a budget or bank statements from the past twelve months to show how you used your money. Your monthly debt, including your mortgage, should not exceed 35% of your gross income.

* Have a wedding that you can afford. This is not the time to start running up large credit card bills and still be paying for your wedding on your fifth anniversary.

* Each of you should get a copy of your credit reports. This will give you a clear picture of how you both handle money and it will help avoid any future surprises. Aim to get your score over 750 to receive the lowest interest rates for your first mortgage and other loans.

* Avoid credit card debt. The best rule of thumb is simply, “if you can’t pay for something with cash, you can’t afford it.” Don’t fall into the trap of buying something with a credit card with the intent of paying it off in just a few months.

* Get one or two credit cards and stick with them. Building a good payment history with one or two credit cards is a positive factor in your credit score.

* Each spouse should have a credit card in his or her own name to build an individual credit score.

* If you have a balance, pay off as much as you can over the minimum each month. If you get gift money, tax refunds, etc., use this to pay off your debt. The faster you pay it off, the faster you can focus on saving and getting ahead. Reducing your debt-to-credit limit ratio also improves your credit score.

* Before the first bills come in, make a plan for how the bills will be paid and who will pay them. If you have separate accounts, know which account pays each bill.


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The information contained within this article was accurate as of June 2, 2009. For up-to-date
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About Sarah Hefner

Sarah Hefner has written for several publications as well as serving as an editor to various writers. She graduated from the School of Communications & Journalism at Auburn University with a Bachelor of Arts degree in Public Relations.
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